Take an active role in the birthing process
To get rid of feelings of helplessness during delivery, it is recommended that dads get involved in the birthing process. Dad’s can play the coaching role by taking birthing classes and helping their partner develop a birth plan. Birth classes can also help dads to know what to expect during the labor process, as well as the first few days after the baby is born.
Becoming a father is not the end to your social life
Having a baby does not mean an end to your social life, however, it may now take a little more effort in terms of scheduling to spend time with your friends. What many dads discover is that, though their life will never be the same after having a child, their life has taken on new meaning.
Practice in preparation for caring for your baby
Caring for the baby is usually seen as a female role, since typically girls have more experience in caring for children. However, your ability to care for a child improves with practice. Visit a male friend or relative who has a baby and have him show you how to pick up the baby, put the baby down, change his/her diaper, and give the baby a bottle. The more you perform these tasks, the more comfortable you will be in caring for your child.
Work on your relationship with your partner
Having a new baby in the picture can be very stressful and will dramatically change your relationship with your partner. The best way to work on your relationship is to schedule time for yourselves. Set aside time when the two of you can talk and be intimate with the fewest amount of distractions.
Get your finances in order
One of the biggest concerns for new dads is figuring out how they will pay for a new baby. The cost of having a baby is very demanding and the best way to handle the new expenses is to make a budget that figures in the cost of diapers, food, child care, and prepares for future expenses such as college. Additionally, every new parent should consider getting life insurance, in case you are suddenly not there to care for your child.
More Tips for New Dads
Compiled using information from the following source:
“Five Common Fears About Fatherhood”, Mama You (Guide to a Healthy Pregnancy), AMA March of Dimes. (2005).